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Tips for Going to a Concert Alone for the First Time
- Agne
- Jul 2
- 4 min read
Ever skipped a concert because no one wanted to go with you? It’s very common to feel nervous about solo travel or attending events alone - I was there too! But taking some small steps can help you overcome that anxiety. I put together some tips that will help you find the courage to go to a concert alone.
My Solo Journey
The first concert I went to alone was James Blunt in 2022 in Hamburg. Long story short: I had gifted the tickets to my boyfriend at the time, but then the pandemic happened - and everything got canceled, including my relationship. The concert was delayed for two years, and by the time it was rescheduled, I still had the tickets - but no boyfriend and no one else who could join me. So, I refunded the second ticket (thankfully, you have that right when events get postponed) and decided to go alone. I had waited so long for that concert, and James Blunt is one of my favorite artists ever - I couldn’t skip it just because no one could come with me.
What helped me feel more secure was that I didn’t need to travel, since I was living in Hamburg. I had a seated ticket in the last row of the first floor, which actually made me feel kind of invisible - if that makes sense. The day came, and I went to the concert alone - and I loved it! From the first notes, I fully immersed myself in the music, and all my stress and anxiety just melted away. That was the moment I realized going alone is fun. In fact, it became a little tradition for me - I’ve now gone solo to three James Blunt concerts!
That experience opened the door to more solo trips. I traveled to Cologne to see Nickelback alone - my first time in the standing sector. More recently, I went to Bochum (a bit in the middle of nowhere) to see Hurts, and I even got to meet the lead singer after the concert and got his signature. Imagine if I had skipped it! Once you try going solo, there’s no going back.
Why Solo Concert Trips Are Amazing
The main reason is simple: you never miss a concert you really want to attend. Did I ever miss concerts because I was too scared to go alone? Yes. Do I regret it? Also yes. Solo concert trips give you the chance to never miss your favorite band’s show again!
Then there’s the flexibility and freedom. I personally love going early, queuing for the bands I love, staying front row, and dedicating the whole day to concert preparation. But some people prefer arriving just minutes before the start and relaxing - which is totally fine! But imagine if two people with different styles go together. Going alone lets you avoid those conflicts and plan everything exactly how you want.
I also love that when I go solo, I can be 100% present in the moment and focus completely on the artist. I’m not saying you can’t do that with friends, but for me, being alone helps me drown in the music even more.
You can also more easily find new connections. Of course, this won’t happen every time. I’ve been to concerts where I didn’t talk to a single person. But sometimes I’ve met fellow fans and had a lot of fun. Be open-minded, and you might get lucky!
And of course, when it comes to confidence and empowerment, solo experiences help tons. Going to a concert alone feels like a major confidence win!
Tips for Going to a Concert Alone
So, how do you start going alone when it feels scary? Here are some tips that helped me, and I hope they help you too!
Choose a venue you’ve been to before and/or that’s nearby. Start small. Pick a familiar venue where you know how to get there and don’t have to travel far. This will help eliminate anxiety about traveling or unknown places.
Get seated tickets. This makes the experience more relaxed. You know you have your own seat, so you can arrive closer to the start time if you want and avoid sitting alone for too long.
Plan ahead. Even if you know the venue, double-check how to get there, which entrance to use, and venue guidelines. This adds an extra level of confidence.
Dress for confidence and comfort. We all love creative concert outfits, but first and foremost, wear what makes you feel good and comfortable. Don’t forget comfy shoes, in case you need to walk or maybe feel confident enough to stand up and dance during the concert!
Pack smart. This applies whether you go solo or with friends, but especially when alone, it feels better to carry just essentials. You can find my complete packing checklist here.
Stay safe! Share your plans with someone you trust. Keep an eye on your surroundings, and trust your instincts.
What to Expect When Going to a Concert Alone
I don’t want to raise your expectations too high, but you might discover that you actually prefer going solo sometimes! It’s completely normal to feel a little awkward at first - don’t pressure yourself to feel a certain way. It’s also totally okay if you don’t meet new people. But it’s just as possible that you’ll have an amazing time. You’ll likely feel incredibly proud by the end, so stay open to the experience - and I really recommend trying it at least once!
Final Thoughts
Going to concerts with concert-loving friends is always amazing. But sometimes, going alone is fun too, and you won’t regret it. What you will regret is skipping your favorite band’s concert because you were too scared to go solo. So even just once - try going solo. Your future self will thank you.
For more tips and concert adventures (solo and not solo), check out my Instagram @concerts_enthusiast!
